跟孩子談情說愛1~情感繪本(親情篇)

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前不久,一位大學教授找我幫忙~她希望我幫她找一些關於談「」的故事,我和她討論了一下,了解她的想法後,就找了一些關於親情、友情、愛情的書,整理了份小書單給她……她告訴我,現今與孩子談情緒的繪本很多,但是談情感的部份,就沒啥人重視(很多大人對情感問題,也都處理不好)~在幫她找書的過程中,我想了想她的話,覺得確實挺有道理的~因為如果孩子不知道在自己惹媽媽生氣後,媽媽心裡還是愛他的,當心裡沒有紮實、肯定的愛當基礎,心裡空空、餓餓的,情緒怎麼會好呢?

又或者大人,在罵完(打完)孩子之後,不知道要讓孩子知道,即使我剛才生氣的像個瘋子,但生完氣後的我,仍舊是愛你的,少了這樣的承諾與保證,孩子就像少吃了這顆愛的定心丸,心亂糟糟的,怎麼有辦法跟父母平靜相處,自然會陷入不美妙相處的惡性循環嘛~

前幾天,我家小女兒告訴我,她有到小書蟲的FB上看我寫的文章,我告訴她~我最近可沒有寫妳的事情喲!(如果我寫她不好的事,她是會跑來找我興師問罪的)她說~她知道啦!不過她看到我有一篇文章裡寫到~每次到了母親節,我就會特別想念母親,她看到那句話時,忍不住就哭了。她跟我講這件事時,講著、講著又哽咽了……可惡的小孩,沒事哽什麼咽,害我忍不住也想掉眼淚~後來她說她要好好抱抱我,(也讓我好好抱抱她)因為她要用她的愛來補我以前少得到的母愛……,這傢伙,別以為她是那種甜心小天使,其實她總有各式怪招好折磨媽媽的,不過即使是這樣,我還是很愛她啦~自己生的,當然要自己愛嘍!

父母親的愛,是孩子生命中很重要的養份,當人的心穩了,這個社會/世界,也自然穩了~~讓世界變得更美好,可以從為孩子/為自己唸一個故事開始喲!

情感繪本─親情篇

https://bit.ly/情感繪本

不管怎麼樣你都會愛我嗎? (20周年雋永紀念版)

https://www.kidsbook.com.tw/books/view_book.asp?id=13296

#情感繪本 #媽媽爸爸愛我嗎 #爺爺奶奶

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