我的美麗閱讀~市場裡的豬肉攤老闆

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上大學的小女兒,之前一直苦惱著自己騎摩托車上學的問題,她總是擔憂自己不小心就變成擾亂交通的馬路三寶,總之她的擔憂我們看見了,所以選了一個星期六的早晨,我和爸爸騎著車,陪她來場公路駕訓,我們尾隨在她的後面,幫她看看~她的騎車習性、技術是否需要改進、注意的地方,反正遇到問題,去面對就對了。

陪著她一路騎到位在桃園的校區,把我一路上觀察到的重點,與她討論,同時希望她能對自己更信任且更有自信;離她的學校不遠的地方,有傳統市場,反正都來了,我便提議去市場採買下星期家裡要煮的食材,所以我們就往這沒來過的市場探險去了。

爸爸因為早餐沒吃,所以看到一家賣刈包的店,想說買個刈包可以邊走邊吃,我和女兒就站在店外等待著,刈包店的對面,有一個小小的,賣黑豬肉的攤子,我看著老闆一邊幫攤子前的客人處理、服務,一邊不忘對過往認識或不認識的客人,點頭微笑,我偷偷在看他也被他發現了,他也對我大大的點了個頭,他的熱情讓我有些不好意思,剛好爸爸的刈包也買好了,所以我們便趕快往更熱鬧的地方躲了進去。

逛菜市場絕對可以體會「紅樓夢」裡,劉姥姥進大觀園的那種感覺,有各式新鮮的食材,有賣力叫喊的老闆,也有現場現做,馬上可以吃的小點心……還有一些年紀很大的婆婆,把自己種的菜,賣相未必很好,但細心整理好的小小攤子……我們懷抱著感激的心,邊逛、邊看、邊買,家裡的肉差不多吃完了,所以需要再買點豬肉,市場裡的豬肉攤很多,有些攤子上掛滿了各式的豬肉,不過也不知道為什麼,我就是想到那個笑容滿面的老闆那裡看看~在青菜差不多都買好後,我們便往那小小的豬肉攤走了過去。

老闆確實很厲害,他一見到我們,馬上認出是之前在對面買刈包的人,當然他知道我們是第一次光顧,所以便很仔細的對我們介紹他所賣的肉,他說他的豬是鄉下養的黑毛豬,用很自然的方式飼養,肉質很清甜,絕對不會有腥味,同時他很仔細的詢問我們,要用什麼方式料理,這樣他才好推薦最適合的部位給我們~面對陌生的我們,我感覺到他真的是發自內心的對我們真心且熱情,我在書店裡二十多年,看過、接觸過的客人很多,對於陌生的人,我總是默默先觀察,那位老闆對我而言,也算陌生人,所以我從他的行為、言語中,觀察、感受著他,他很珍惜上門的每位客人,也珍惜著自己攤子上的每塊肉……在買完他推薦給我們的東西後,我們彼此懷抱著感激的心,結束了這難忘的第一次接觸。

回到家後,我馬上進廚房,用在攤子上買到的肉,煮了一鍋排骨粥,我想確認一下他的東西,是否真如他口中所說的那樣,等粥煮好後馬上品嚐~真的非常美味,像我小時候吃到自家養的那種豬肉味道,我和女兒說~那位老闆真的沒有騙人吔!同時我也感謝女兒~要不是她那麼麻煩(騎車亂擔心),我們還未必有機會走到那裡,有機會遇見那麼不一樣的老闆呢!(也許我們就是需要認識他,所以孩子只好幫忙製造讓我們遇見的機會)

後來~因著那位老闆,我們改變了平常的習慣,到離家更遠的市場買菜,每次到攤子上,我還是冷靜的觀察著他,但他仍舊對我們很熱情,(而且他總是把我前一次與他的對話記得一清二楚)這年頭還能對人這樣熱情的人,真的不多了~我內心默默的佩服著他呢!

今天一早,我和先生又到市場找他補給食材,因為先去了一趟花市,所以到菜市場的時間就晚了些,本來想在攤子上再買點排骨煮湯,但是他攤子上的排骨全賣完了,我就稱讚他生意很好呢!他告訴我~到他攤子上買新鮮豬肉的人,已經形成斷層了,本來主要消費的客人,不是變老了,也有可能是死了,所以就消失了,至於年輕一輩的人,要嘛是不會煮(吃外食),再不然就是不懂的欣賞「自然」、「天然」的好,所以他的生意早大不如前了,不過他仍舊覺得自己的豬肉很重要、很好,所以現在可以做的,就是豬殺少了點(每天賣半隻豬,跟別人平分),有緣份的客人,他就把服務做好一些~這樣的過日子方式,讓他覺得還是挺不錯的啦!

現今的生活形態,其實非常的匆匆啦!不過~在一向忙碌、匆忙的市場一角,我可以遇見一位如此懂生活、懂進與退的豬肉攤老闆,覺得是自己的幸運及幸福呢!

「閱讀」其實未必只侷限於書本當中,生活的環境裡,有許許多多的事物,都很值得我們去「閱讀」(人、動物、、礦物……皆是),當然,我們自己本身~也提供著別人的「閱讀」,我們能讓別人從自己身上讀到什麼呢?這真是有意思的思考啊!

最近重讀了一次「花婆婆」,花婆婆的故事中傳遞著一個美麗的信念~做一件事,讓世界變得更美麗,好好的耕耘著自己,讓自己成為別人眼中很讚、很值得的閱讀,我覺得這也是一件讓世界變美麗的事情呢。

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