就算進入晚年,仍有美麗人生

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應該是好幾年前的事了~曾經,有一位可能是奶奶級的客人,她從廣播上聽到了〞阿松爺爺的柿子樹〞這個故事,再透過網路找到了小書蟲,她打了電話過來,問看看有沒有賣這本書,而且一次要買十幾本,聽她電話裡講話的樣子,我覺得她不像是在學校教書的老師,所以我便好奇的問了她買這麼多量的原因是什麼。

她有點不好意思的對我說~有人請她去講一場小分享(演講),她怕自己講的內容不夠精彩,而剛好又在廣播裡聽到這個故事,就想把故事內容也加進她的分享內容中,等到最後~再把故事送給來聽她講話的人,所以就先自掏腰包,把書買好。

從她的言談中聽來,她應該不是那種很能言善道~說起話來油里油氣的演說家,不過這樣經驗不足的人,其實才是最可愛、最充滿誠意的,光是那份謙虛就很迷人,這不禁讓我回想到自己孩子還小的時候,學校會招募利用早自習,為孩子們說故事的義工媽媽,有很多媽媽其實也不是什麼說故事高手,但是就是抱著一顆為孩子奉獻的心所講出來的故事~就是特別迷人且更有味道呢。(這樣的勇敢示範,也才是最有利於孩子的)

後來那位要去演講的客人,我又在電話裡,推薦了她一些我覺得她會喜歡的故事,那些故事,讓她像個孩子一般的開心~所以又多買了一大堆,誰說只有孩子需要故事,我覺得大人其實更需要故事,因為大人的心靈往往被現實社會弄的很枯竭,乾枯的心靈~更加深了社會的沈悶與看不見希望。

台灣社會,已經進入老年化的狀態,老年人的照顧/照護,成了社會上很重大的議題~在繪本的部份,這些年來也出現了一些〞新的〞老人故事,有一大部份,都是關於老人失智的故事,老實說~這些書手手姐姐自己都讀的很痛苦,還有些故事的內容,是教導孩子要如何照顧失智的爺爺、奶奶……這…這…這…古人不是說─「己所不欲,勿施於人」,把這沈重的議題丟給孩子,我真心覺得非常、非常的不妥當啦!

前些日子,得知一位朋友的父親過世了,我知道那位朋友的父母,不論是在生活習性、生命態度、想法、做法……,都有許多令孩子無奈、厭惡的部份,但是他父親的離世,卻仍舊帶給了他挺大的傷痛(反而不是鬆了一大口氣)……這就是件非常奇妙的事,即使再不是的父母,仍舊是孩子心中的很重要,所以如果自己是有能力〞真心〞疼惜孩子的人,改變自己,才是對孩子更重要的一件事呢!

晚年的人生,就是註定必須是在「、吃藥、看電視、唉聲嘆氣」中度過嗎?其實並不是的~當人可以把握住自己的力量,在「自己可以」(即使微不足道)的部份,為世界貢獻且努力著,即使到了晚年,仍舊是可以有著美麗人生呢!

孩子會長大,我們會老~在陪伴孩子長大的共謮故事中,讓大人一起思考,且預約一段真正美麗的晚年人生吧!

晚年美麗人生故事~一共有14個,每個故事讀完後,會讓人有滿滿的力量與感動,這些故事是真的很讚喔!讓自己成為一個一輩子有力量的人,就不必花心思去煩惱「長不長照」的問題了。

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